{"id":981,"date":"2004-11-12T12:09:00","date_gmt":"2004-11-12T12:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/delascabezas.com\/blog\/index.php\/2019\/02\/20\/more-answers\/"},"modified":"2019-02-20T21:56:41","modified_gmt":"2019-02-20T21:56:41","slug":"more-answers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/delascabezas.com\/blog\/index.php\/2004\/11\/12\/more-answers\/","title":{"rendered":"more answers"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ask more<\/a>, if you wanna know more.
\nno names, to protect the wicked<\/strike> curious<\/p>\n

Describe to me your ideal woman.<\/b>
\nToughie. I don’t have “a type”, nor do I have a particular “look” I go for. I have physical _prefrences_ but i don’t put those above the package deal, so to speak. Attraction is only one part physical, and that part always fades with time. I need to be with someone who laughs, someone smart, and someone who wants to be with me as much as I want to be with them. I need to be with someone who can be honest with me, thick or thin.<\/p>\n

Are you straight? Gay? Bi?<\/b>
\nBi curious? I dunno, I tend to skip labels on sexuality, as I think they are more an artificial construct than a reality. I think everyone is a sexual being. I’ve had experiences on the +\/+ combo,and they were not fun, mostly because they were not of my choosing. While I don’t know that the hardware is quite wired that way (for a lot of reasons), I can definteily see getting into an intimate relationship with a guy emotionally, but it would have to be a pretty fucking picturesque situation in a lot of other courts for that to be a possibility.<\/p>\n

But the whole not liking dicks thing – yeah, I guess that makes me more straight than not, but there are definitely some beautiful guys out there.<\/p>\n

Make my life simpler. What do you want for giftmas. Don’t tell me “nothing”, either.<\/b>
\nPeace on Earth and Good Will Towards Men. (And no, you don’t work for the US gov’t, so you can’t say you don’t do that sort of thing)<\/p>\n

How serious of a writer are you?<\/b>
\nWhat a fucking toughie that is. Lots of ways to take this one. Am I serious when I write? Yes. Do I want to be “a writer”? Yes, with a but. I love words, their beauty of nuance, their multiplicity of being. Personally though, I would have rather been the guy who held the talking stick and told stories in the dark of night to keep people captivated. I love the POWER of words, and, to that end, I try to be a wordsmith when I am attempting to give birth to a story inside me for others to partake in.<\/p>\n

As a way to pay the bills? THat kinda writer? I dunno, probably not that serious. As a storyteller? Deadly serious.<\/p>\n

what is your single greatest fear?<\/b>
\nGoing blind. That is probably the only condition under which I would off myself. Maybe.<\/p>\n

what is the nicest thing anyone has ever said about you to you?<\/b>
\nSomeone once told me “You saved my life with those damn insight defibulators you always carry around.” I am no savant. I am no genius. I do try to challenge people around me, often, on lots of levels. Part of that is prying under the hood sometimes. I guess the fact that I did that, and walked away having made a change in someone for the better, in a marked, firsthand realization made me feel pretty damn good.<\/p>\n

If you had one skill in which you were the best at in the world, or one of the best, what would it be and why?<\/b>
\nHmm.
\nI would want to be the best at the esoteric talent of “being able to use the powers of my mind like a Jedi”.<\/p>\n

Seriously? I wish I were a good musician. I am a passable vocalist, but I do not have the inspiration for instruments. I have the capacity for music, but the creative spark which infuses so much of my life doesn’t extend to that part of my psyche. That is why I listen to so much music, remix other people’s music, and love love love the enduring pieces that have walked across time with us. I mean, you can say what you want about great writers, thinkers, warriors – the guy or gal who came up with the notes to “row row row your boat” is way more immortal than any of us will ever be. and in a good way. the way you are supposed to be immortal.<\/p>\n

but yeah, powers of the mind.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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